I’ve always wanted to get into tech however, two barriers stopped me achieving this. I’m a carer for my mum and have been since I started high school. This meant I had extra responsibilities that many of my school friends didn’t have to worry about which affected my education, and I felt I had to grow up fast.
My younger sister also helps with caring for my mum, but she’s now at university, so most of the responsibility sits with me. I always wanted her to have all the opportunities I didn’t, and it’s great to see her doing so well.
As well as my caring responsibilities, I was diagnosed as autistic last year, following a misdiagnosis when I was younger. It’s UK Disability History Month, 14 November – 20 December, and autism is recognised as a disability, but I don’t personally see myself as disabled. When I was first diagnosed, I thought there was something ‘wrong’ with me. Now I can see that’s not true, there’s nothing wrong with me, I just do things in different ways.
Having this diagnosis confirmed has been a huge relief, but it also brings a sense of frustration and ‘what if?’. There’s a lot of wasted years at school which felt incredibly overwhelming, and where I didn’t get the specific support that could have helped. Instead, I feel I was pushed in a particular direction rather than making my own mind up and found myself leaving education at 16.
Thankfully, it was through my role as a carer that I found out about GFiE. The Young Carer’s Association help people from diverse backgrounds like me into work and supported with my application.
As for reasonable adjustments, I was offered any support I may have needed so that I wasn’t at a disadvantage because of my barriers. The process was made a lot easier by George, my line manager at DWP Digital. He contacted me in advance of the interview to reassure me. He said it won’t be a formal interview, there is no pressure and to think of it as a friendly chat to get to know each other. He helped me recognise that interview was for me to also ask questions about the role and discover whether it would interest me.
I was able to do the interview virtually which made it a lot easier as I was in a comfortable and familiar environment. This relieved the extra pressures of an in-person interview, such as worrying about travel or getting lost, where my nerves may have built up too much. As soon as we started talking during the interview, I felt relaxed.